An Unlikely Parallel

        While browsing the National Geographic website I came across an article that instantly grabbed my attention: Millions of Young Girls Forced into Marriage.  I had definitely heard of child marriages before but never did it occur to me that this was happening to 'Millions' of girls.  As I dove into the article I found even more startling facts; "One out of nine girls in developing countries will be married by age 15".  This shows how huge this problem is.  Parents often encourage child marriage due to economic concerns.  Many times a daughter is the only form of "currency" a family has, or the only commodity a family has left to trade.  Not only are these young girls forced to do something against their will but they are also forced to engage in sexual relations with there spouse, "Girls ages l0-14 are five times more likely to die in pregnancy or childbirth than women aged 20-24 and girls aged 15-19 are twice as likely to die".  These statistics show the great danger that comes along with young pregnancies, and therefore child marriages.  After marriage these girls are expected to run a household and raise children, therefore they are forced to grow up too fast.  

           In parallel, some young girls in America are facing similar circumstances to these child brides: the stars from 'Toddlers and Tiaras'.  These young girls are heavily encouraged and usually forced by their parents to participate in pageant shows that require hours of pampering and are purely focused on outer beauty.  These toddlers get spray tans, fake nails, fake eyelashes, fake teeth, colored contacts, and heaps of makeup are applied to their tiny faces on top of all that they are dressed in inappropriate clothing.  

As a viewer states "These poor girls are being exploited before millions of national viewers at every level. At the most tender of age, they are being told to show more skin, sashay seductively and diet".  Clearly this show is faced with controversy, but its still a very popular TV show and has been on air for several years.  Not only does this send the wrong message for girls, but similarly to the girls being forced in to marriage these young American girls are forced to shed their innocence too early.  They are unwillingly forced by they’re parents to engage in an activity.  In both cases it helps the parents economically, in child weddings the parents no longer have to support their daughter and in pageant shows the winner is rewarded with large amounts of cash.  Both child marriages and pageant shows force young girls to grow up too fast.  For in child marriages girls are forced to take care of a family and pageant girls are forced to look a certain way and care about how they look, which takes away the innocence of childhood.  I believe pageants spoil the charm and innocence that childhood so delicately holds. 

The Problem with Service Trips

              With summer slowly approaching, I have begun thinking about plans for what I am going to do.  Something I was briefly but keenly interested in the New Trier in India trip.  This trip consists of two weeks of traveling around India, at the whooping expense of 5,322 dollars.  The trip is considered a service trip because students contribute to building a school in a poverty stricken village.  I believe that students who go on this trip and teachers or sponsors involved in trips like these have the greatest of intentions, but should stop to consider whether or not they are making the greatest impact possible. 

Malnourished man in India 

             While doing research on the cost of living in India, I discovered that on average a decent meal ranges from 10 to 20 rupees, which is 0.37 cents in American Dollars.  This means that if you put the 5,332 Dollars toward feeding India, one could supply over 14,410 meals to hungry human beings.  This amount of money could also supply three meals over the course of twelve years for one individual.  So whose lives are we implying are ‘worth more’?  Is it the students who pay an outrageous amount of money purely to experience India or the starving malnourished Indians who could benefit tremendously by the money the students pay?  A trip to India consists of leisure and fun.  One is introduced to a new culture. Students may interact with a few needy children at an orphanage, but in a matter of days these students get to go back to their privileged lives, and leave these malnourished deprived people in the dust. This story even appeared in the Chicago Tribune.  The point of view of one of the New Trier board members is very similar to my own "(he) said the travel costs would be better suited as a donation to the cause, rather than to give a small group of students an international experience".  Clearly he believes that in the bigger picture the cause is more important than an individual's experience. The graph below shows the soaring rates of poverty, and highlights the needs many people in India are facing. 

          These needs should not be ignored.  There is a great irony here, Wealthy American students pay a ridiculous amount of money to view the deprived community, but the money they are using could have reduced some of this poverty.   I’m not trying to discourage travel or one's desire for exploration but instead to raise awareness and possibly encourage individuals to change travel habits.  Instead of paying outrageous amounts of money to stay in fancy Western styled hotels and restaurants, why not engulf your self in the culture? Live like the locals.  This will not only keep the cost of the trip down but allow the Americans to really relate to the locals.